Well, we will see how this goes. My first partner, Bob, and I have been together for 20 years. Our second partner, Tim, has been with us for over 10 years. Yes, we are a "triad" and I see there are more of these out there than I thought! Some guys frown on the idea (their loss!!) and other guys really embrace it (thanks guys!). We're pretty laid back and want to enjoy life. Looking for other couples & triads to communicate with.