We've been together for 4 years, and we're finally living together. I've got my first post-grad job, and when Cagdas gets his doctorate in 18 months, we'll be full-fledged grown-ups! I'm looking to talk to other couples about the quirks and ins and outs of being a couple. I am also looking for more friends in the area. Being so new here, I don't know many other gay people, and I have a hard time with straight couples. I'm a very social person, and I'm looking for good people--not FLAKES! I'm really excited to meet exciting and outgoing people like us!